When I was in high school I spent two years on the swim team and one year on the softball team. I was a good softball player and a lousy swimmer. But, I enjoyed them both and learned a lot from the experience. Here are a few lessons I took away from my days as an athlete:
1. Don’t limit your activities to only the things you’re good (or great) at. I was a good softball player, but I only played my freshman year. I wanted to take part in the school musicals in the spring and that conflicted with the softball schedule. However, I greatly enjoyed that one year playing softball and have played recreationally in the summers ever since. By pursuing everything I was interested in in high school rather than just the things I was good at, I learned a much greater variety of skills and broadened my interests and abilities. My time spent in musical theatre enhanced my musicianship which is also something I’ve pursued amateurly (but hopefully not amateurishly) ever since.
2. Only I can measure my success or failure. When I was on the swim team, it’s no exaggeration to say that I was the worst one on the team. I was not good, I was not fast, I was not successful in any conventional sense. But I learned how to swim really well. And I learned how to work hard for intrinsic motivation. In my second year on the team, I earned my varsity letter (it was a point system), just barely, by the skin of my teeth. And to date I consider it one of my greatest accomplishments because I worked really, really hard for it and I kept at it and I didn’t give up. (And I still swim for fun and exercise as well.)
3. When I’m really busy I’m much more productive. I don’t really know the why of this one, but on the days when I spent 2 1/2 hours in the pool every afternoon I never turned assignments in late, I studied for tests in a timely fashion, and I generally got more done. My theory, and feel free to chime in with further wisdom in the comments, is that not having as much dispensable time killed my tendency to procrastinate at every turn. When I am busy, I order my time more efficiently, I do what needs to be done and I move on to the next thing. (On the other hand, there was no internet back then…) I have noticed over the years that it helps if at least some of the things that are keeping me busy are things that I choose, that I like, that feed my goals and purposes.
This is my entry in MZM’s what I learned from the world of sports group writing project.
December 10, 2007 at 6:56 am
Anna, I think your third point is probably the strongest one for me. Being less busy is definitely a bad thing for me! I like it when my time is filled with purpose.
Thanks for joining in, Anna! Cheers!
December 11, 2007 at 12:46 am
Good thoughts today! Glad you persevered to get your letter. I’m glad you gave it your best.
I’ve heard it said, “If you want something done, ask the busiest person you know, because they will be sure to accomplish it.” How true!
And I agree with your line about not having the internet in the past. Although the internet is a time saver, it is also a time spender. I guess the following verse applies here too: “Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” – Ephesians 5:16
Thanks for sharing!
Jonell
December 11, 2007 at 1:07 am
I’ve had an afterthought too about point #3. I think the dicipline of sports leaks over into the other areas of your life. And the endorphins don’t hurt : )
December 11, 2007 at 4:26 am
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December 27, 2007 at 4:39 am
I had a similar experience with high school sports, very busy and very productive.
I like your point about how though you were by no means the best on the team, it ended up with you becoming a very proficient swimmer.
Another thing that pops into my mind—the best way to get good at something is to surround yourself with people who are better at it than you. When you joined the swim team, that’s what you did, and you learned a ton.
December 27, 2007 at 6:34 pm
Hi Jonny,
One of the things I liked best about High School is how you get to try a lot of things and you don’t have to be super good at them.